question from readers

there has been a lot of speculative talk about the co-author, co-editor and co-ceo of this blog.
some believe T to be a fictional character, others think it's merely my alter-ego, while others are of the opinion that she is a bad friend
this is neither the place or time to air "dirty laundry"...

i am reminded of a post war shrink session, where i was advised: considering your losses, you might want to think about giving any friendships another shot (pun intended)

i guess this is why the fable goes: friendship can be likened to peeing on yourself - if you're wearing white (or light coloured) pants, then everyone can see it, but (regardless of pant colour) only you get the warm feeling that it brings

... therefore, the official statment is that T is a real person